We all at one point in time or another encountered people whom we would rather build a solid relationship with. Unfortunately, these ladies do not feel the same and we usually realise this a little too late.
It is difficult to know who is only out to play with your feelings and who is here for the long haul. However, there are certain traits and characteristics female players easily demonstrate.
With these, you can easily tell her intent and then walk away before it is too late for you.
If you’re curious to know if you are with a player or probably if you are one yourself, go through this list and check your boxes accordingly.
She never talks about her feelings
Female players never talk about how they feel. They refuse to engage in any long “boring” discussions about your feelings for her and your views about love.
She will have no such discussions about her dreams and hopes with you. The only way and form of communication she identifies with is flirting. This is a sign of an expert player, take note.
She keeps tally of the men she has been with
To her, the whole dating scene is a game. She gets excited when she says no to a man or when she gets to “use” and dump a man. It’s a boost to her oversized ego.
She only dates people to prove she can get them to fall in love with her, and never the other way around. Once she’s bored, she tosses you aside like you never mattered. Yes, the hallmark of players, toying with peoples’ feelings and that’s just not cool at all.
She does not commit to one person for a long time
Commitment is a daunting task for her. Naturally, for all relationships, commitment is the foundation on which the relationship is built. Players, however, are just never able to commit. She is always constantly being distracted by the prospects of being with some other person. Always making you aware of her options. Run for your life, she has no long term plans of being with you.
She uses sex to get anything she wants
Players see sex as a physical act and nothing more. No feelings, no emotions, just something two people do to pass time. She has no problem offering sex to end a fight or offering sex in exchange for a favour of some kind.
To her, the act of sex is her tool, with which she can manipulate people to behave the way she wants them to. She never holds back on the thought of sex, because she does it with no desire for intimacy.
She expects men to pay for everything
Unfortunately for them, players are the most entitled people you are likely to ever come across. She just automatically expects you to offer to pay for the services she uses, clothes she buys and basically her entire life. Usually, this sense of entitlement stems from the fact that she believes she has a lot of other people in waiting to do exactly what she is asking you to do.
She brings nothing to the relationship table, except extravagant demands, sex and more demands. She never attempts to support in any way and always threatens to walk away if you are unable to meet her demands.
She does not date a man if he does not earn a certain amount of money
Closely related to her sense of entitlement is her trend of dating a particular calibre of men. Players are selfish people and only look out for themselves.
She is only hoping and expecting to run into a lottery of a man or a financial safety net to secure a future. She is always on the lookout for the next rich man she will encounter. She objectifies men and is so quick and change them.
Of course, there are women who are players for just no reason. They simply enjoy hopping from one man or the other. But, the majority of women who cheat usually do so with a deep-seated desire to attain something from all of what she does.
If you are unfortunate to be with a woman who identifies with any of these traits, you need to run as soon as possible. You might just be her most recent victim.
