Dear Dave: She needs to stop calling me

Valentina N.A.D. Okang

Dave, Is it normal for a wife to be calling me so many times to be checking on me? We’re not newly wedded. We’ve done four years and a kid, and she still calls me so many times after work to know when I would be home.

Dave, sometimes I just want to hang out with friends, but her constant calls are almost getting on my nerves. She knows I will eat any good food she prepares, yet she’d have to call me to find out what I would eat.

The least thing, she’d call. A black woman wins Miss Universe, she’d call me to tell me.

What am I using Ms Universe for? Charley, d tin dey bore me roff. I love her, and I love the fact that she loves me too, but can’t/won’t there ever be a day she wouldn’t have to be the one calling?

I’m realizing it’s gradually irritating me, and I might start ignoring most of her calls. I do not like to be policed. I am beginning to feel she doesn’t want me to make any friends or have a life of my own aside from the one I have with her.

How do I get this problem solved Dave? Because it’s becoming a problem for me.

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