An ex of mine is currently in the country. He texted me on Saturday to say he was around and wanted to see me that night. I told him we were far apart, but he still drove to my area. I am married, so I had to sneak out to meet him.
I have been married for three years. I have a two-year-old child and I am currently four months pregnant. We used to communicate when he lived abroad, but we lost touch. He said he got my contact from a friend after arriving in Ghana about a week ago.
He did not know I was married at first, but I told him everything so he would stay away. Despite this, he said he still wanted me. That night, I gave in and we slept together in his car. I felt ashamed afterwards and had to clean up quietly so my husband would not suspect anything.
He is still in my messages and wants us to continue seeing each other. He says he loves me and would have married me if I were single. He says he is willing to risk everything for me.
My feelings for him have returned. It is not about money. I genuinely want him. At the same time, I also love my husband. Given my situation, I am confused and struggling with what to do.
Please advise me. It is very hard for me to completely cut him off.
