Dear Dave: I want sex and fun, not love

Valentina N.A.D. Okang

This is the situation I find myself in: we are three friends, in our mid to late twenties. We are single and have no plans settling down any time soon. I am a nurse. The other two are banking and teaching.

Our interest basically is seducing married men we find attractive for sex. No strings really attached. We don’t ask for money or favours; we just love the sex with these men we find attractive.

And so, if a patient at the hospital just turns out to be cute, I engage him and accidentally, hook him up with anyone of my friends who would like him after seeing his picture.

The same thing is done for me. If the teacher sees a parent of any of her students, or the banker spots a client at the banking hall, they do their thing to get enough information about that customer. We trade pictures and contact numbers of our targets, and we work the magic.

I have fallen in love with one of my guys and I do not know how to change that feeling. How do I get rid of this feeling? I think he loves me too. I’d want to believe it’s the sex so good that might be confusing the both of us, but this has never happened to me before. I have always been about the sex and fun of it.

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