I would like to know from your audience whether it is normal for a woman to strongly desire a man with a very large sexual organ.
I ask because this has always been my preference. It is not because I have been promiscuous or “spoilt.” It is simply what I am attracted to. When a man approaches me, physical size is honestly one of the first things I think about before taking him seriously.
My early understanding of sex was shaped by pornography I was exposed to at a young age, where exaggerated body types were presented as the ideal. That influenced what I came to associate with sexual pleasure and attraction, and those ideas stayed with me into adulthood.
I am now 31 and have not been able to maintain a stable relationship because I often feel unfulfilled when this expectation is not met. I am also afraid of settling into marriage and still feeling dissatisfied.
Some of the men who fit my preference are not people I see myself marrying, which adds to my confusion.
I genuinely want to know whether this is a normal sexual preference or whether it could be linked to earlier exposure and conditioning that I need to work through. I am asking because I want clarity and to know how best to move forward.
Thank you.
