I am married to my former boss. He used to be married when we were ‘dating’. I am not the type that goes after people’s husbands, however, this just happened.
He was unhappy with so many things, including his marriage to his ex-wife.
He used to come to work very angry and would be shouting on top of his voice at people for no reason. The least mistake and he was firing.
That was how we actually became friends. He threatened to fire me because I had forgotten to file a document. I was crying when he entered my office to apologize for screaming at me in the presence of everyone.
He hugged to console me, and that was the beginning of our affair.
He started checking on me on a daily basis. He would text, call or invite himself to my house. I did not give him my phone number, I never showed him where I stayed, yet he found me.
I was vulnerable then; my heart had been broken by ex and was trying to heal as fast as I could when my boss started showing himself strong in my life.
I liked him. He was and still is a catch actually. But as stated earlier, I wasn’t into married men so I made him know from the moment I realized he wanted me. He was persistent, and so I gave in to his pressure.
He divorced his wife three years ago, and we married seven months later. I love him, and I know he loves me too, but I am scared.
Of late, he acts up anytime he is on phone chatting with someone. I think he is seeing someone he likes. He shows certain signs of excitement and happiness in his mannerisms anytime he is texting whoever.
I used to see those acts all over him when we were screwing, prior to his divorce. Those acts of falling in love with someone special, etc.
Do I have the right to ask him whether or not he is having an affair, looking at how we started ours? I am just scared of losing him to another woman.
What I did was wrong, but isn’t God forgiving not to revisit me with the sins of my past?
I am a changed woman now. I go to church and all, and I am willing to make my marriage work. We have a kid.
