Dear Dave: I deliberately tried to infect my wife with HIV

Valentina N.A.D. Okang

I’d want to applaud you for the great work you’ve committed your Facebook platform for. I read most of your posts on tell it all. That’s how come I got to hear about you.

Beside our doctor, my wife and now you, no one else knows about my HIV status. I saw the post you made about the guy wondering if he’s been infected.

I used to think it was my right to keep more than just one woman in my stable. I have been married for 17 years and been poz for 7 years.

I knew the virus could be passed on through sex so when I was diagnosed and counselled to tell my wife to come for the test… I did not inform her. My plan was to let us all get infected and work it out when she also tests positive.

I was the one having affairs. I was the one who got this but I was scared of being alone. I feared my wife would abandon me. I had sex with my wife for over two months before asking her to let us get tested in a different facility.

After the two months of constant sex with my wife, she tested negative. We checked on the 3rd and 6th month again, still negative.

She packed all of her belongings from our bedroom and has been sleeping in the kids’ room.

I have apologized for intentionally trying to infect her.

She is still mu wife but we have not had sex in 7 years. She cooks, cleans and takes care of the kids and home.

She has been nothing but helpful and kind to me. I am on my meds.

HIV may not be a death sentence anymore Dave, the news breaks and changes you for a lifetime.

I hope the future of the married men on your platform wouldn’t be dicktated by the big breasts ad buttocks we’re excited about.

Guy, do not cheat on a woman who has been nothing but good to you. Do not take your wives for granted. The consequences are enormous.

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