Hello David, My husband’s family suck at identifying the real issues which need to be resolved in their family.
They can never have a family meeting without a fight . Everybody knows what’s right in that family, that no one listens to the other’s point of view without interruptions.
They do not agree on anything basically and so they’re always angry at each other, backbiting . Now, some of his brothers are calling and meeting with me to point fingers at my husband for being the cause of their disunity.
My husband, when he wants to blame someone for his own errors in his family, would paint his siblings back to me. He does not welcome any of his brothers and sisters to our home due to their differences.
Now, he’s trying to be nice to my siblings instead. He would send my parents and siblings and even cousins money without them asking for it.. He would call them to chat for no reason. I think he is trying to abandon his family for mine.
Dave, I don’t want my husband in my family. He causes confusion. He lies. He backbites and breaks things apart. That’s the kind of man I am married to, so you can only imagine.
He’s very fake, and I don’t trust him. Do I warn my family? Because they certainly do not see that side of him. All they know is ‘their in-law is good.’ But Dave, he is not a good man. I am still in this marriage because of my children.
