Dear Dave: Live, Love, Learn

Valentina N.A.D. Okang

Hey David,

Again kudos…this platform is truly amazing and an opportunity for wise men and women to learn from people’s experiences.

Marriage isn’t an easy journey because people have different experiences, baggages and backgrounds which influence how they treat people they build relationships with.

Hence it’s so crucial to observe and stay vigilant on certain traits or behaviors because you truly can’t change people outright .You can at best shape them and steer their mindset but others may be truly difficult. However it’s really sad to read some scary experiences some people go through even though it’s one side of the story.

I was fortunate to grow up in a home where I never saw my parents fight hence I grew up believing there is always a way in solving challenges if both parties are committed to the cause. In essence, what’s key is to make the best of LIFE, LIVE to treat your partners fairly and LOVE with all your heart.

If it doesn’t work, at least you tried and will find what’s best for you.

To the audience who read people’s realities, be thankful for the experience, because this is wisdom on a silver platter. It will help shape your thinking and mindset so your journey is a fulfilling one. Kudos, and keep me anonymous.

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