I am not a fan of oral sex. I mean, any form of it. In fact, I think it’s disgusting. My husband knew this about me, and we have done four years of marriage without it in our sex life.
Lately, he’s been complaining of wanting to do more intimately, oral being part of the ‘more’.
Dave, for the life in me, I CANNOT PUT MY MOUTH ON HIS PENIS. I do not want to feel his mouth or tongue on or inside my vagina either. It’s disgusting! How can a man or woman who does all these nasty stuff, still claim to be pure at heart? I know the matrimonial bedroom is a place to explore, but this, Dave, I can’t. We have done some years of good sex without any of these unnecessary accessories.
We enjoy kissing and touching ourselves to arouse ourselves for intimacy. Why can’t a man be satisfied with what really works? Should we try anything simply because it’s fun for others? What about what has been our fun for the past four years?
Due to this, his attitude has changed. He does not even want to eat my dinner. He stays out late and leaves very early in the mornings. He will cook up every excuse just to be away from my presence, all because I cannot do oral sex.
I am not bothered about his sudden change of character. I have a kid, a job and a home to take care of. I have my own life to focus on. I do not deny him sex. I give in to sex whenever he wants it. (The last time we had sex was two months, two weeks ago.) He’s claiming he is not in the mood anymore. It doesn’t bother me, Dave, however, him discussing this with a mutual friend of ours – for him and his wife to sit me down to reason with me offends me.
I am not being outrageous, am I?
