I’ve been married for three years four months today. I have a kid and awaiting another. I love my wife. She is a good woman beyond my expectations; innocent, respectful, hardworking, submissive and committed. In fact, I am privileged to be the one she gifted her VIRGINITY to.
She had been there when I had nothing. She even supported me at a point during my college days to pay my fees. She bought me some gadgets I used to start my own business. I adore, respect and love her like anything you can ever imagine. Really, I am ready to do anything just to make her happy. I owe her that much.
Dave, even though the temptations are everywhere as a man, left-right-up-down, the traps are everywhere… I promised myself that I would want to stay loyal, faithful and committed to this woman no matter what. I want to be different. I want to be able to knock my chest and say that I have never cheated on her.
But here is the problem: she is a little dull with sex. I tried many ways to get her up to speed but it’s just not working. Mind you, I am not boring at sex, I am pretty good with pre-sex play, sex-play and post-sex play. I damn make her squirt and get multiple orgasms when we are at it. I know she didn’t have any past sexual partners to have the experience, neither do I, but I just learn on my own and read a lot on the web, especially from relationship pages and apply. She is shy, she doesn’t initiate sex, and again, even when we are at it, she is passive. I technically do all the job.
She doesn’t also give it to me as regular as I want it. Before some of you say, ‘help her with home chores’, I would want to clear the air that it is sorted already. Because I am involved at home with her. I want her to be the ‘stubborn, naughty’ girl for me at home – that will make me want to run home every single minute even if I am about to enter my grave.
I sat her down and spoke to her countless times, I even subscribed to premium SEX EDUCATION platforms just so we can spice up our marriage, got her to follow relationships pages, even yours, but Dave, nothing is working.
Where I am located, there is nearly no professional counsellors. Now, I want to involve her ELDER SISTER, to do the talking. I don’t know if it’s a good idea or if you have better ideas for me. I will love to hear them.
