Forgive me for sending in this at this late hour. I am getting married in March 2020. My guy and I have already planned everything to the last detail. We are both wearing trousers. His will be a blue-black colour. Mine will be pink. I am not the gown or dresses kind of lady. I am either in a hot, short pant or a well-tailored fine trou.
I don’t do veil. I’ve been fucking my fiancé since years ago. I don’t see the need to cover my face with a veil, knowing very well we’ve been having sex. I am not a virgin.
I want to build the foundation of my marriage on truth. And this is a decision my guy and I both took. I told my parents about it, and they’re against the pink trousers. My dad has gone to buy a white wedding gown and a veil. He says it’s the norm, and that, I should not humiliate him on my big day.
Dave, I don’t get it! It’s my wedding, and I am choosing to wear what I know would make me feel comfortable. But my parents are insisting I either do the normal, or they would not accompany me as their family to be married.
Not that I care, I do not care. I just want to know if I can get married without any of my parents present? I can walk down the aisle all by myself, to marry the man after my own heart. My pastor is also saying he cannot marry us without my parents’ consent, and so I should go “honour my father and mother.”
How can I go around this problem and still wear my pink attire to my own wedding?
