Ghanaian actress, Beverly Afaglo has some piece of advice for young unmarried ladies, who have made social media their lives.
Beverly Afaglo who managed to keep her relationship with Choirmaster very private up until their marriage says it is stupid to flaunt any man who is not your husband.
She told show host Nana Romeo that: “If you’re a woman and you’re dating a man and he hasn’t seen your parents to perform the knocking rites, because definitely, a man who is serious, will come home and see your parents or your entire family will know him. Until then, I’ll advise that you keep him on a low key, keep a low profile, don’t let people know.
If your friends know him, it’s fine, but don’t parade him on social media because once you put him on social media even if there are no issues surrounding him, someone will get something to say about him. That’s when they’ll say I know that guy then they’ll start sending you direct messages that that’s his girl or this is his girlfriend and that will break your heart. But if no one knows they can’t come and advice you.
“Someone will also say that if you had put him on social media someone could have prompted you that’s when he’s married elsewhere. But it’s you who is dating the person who needs to be vigilant because sometimes when people say that we were in bed when he woke up to go marry someone else.
If the person says they had no iota of doubt that the guy was cheating even once, it’s not true because when someone’s cheating on you, you’ll see, no matter what, you’ll see a sign that he’s cheating. So putting him on social media will not make you know whether or not he has someone else beside you. So don’t put him on social media.”
