My husband and I divorced in 2019. I caught him in bed with another woman in his sister’s room, which showed me she fully supported his infidelity.
This is how it happened. He often visited his sister because she was his only sibling and he claimed they were very close. But the visits became too frequent, and I grew suspicious. One day, I went to her house, and the way the women there interacted with him made me feel something was off.
I started paying closer attention. One day, he left to see his sister as usual, and I had a strong feeling to follow him. When I got there, his sister saw me and immediately ran inside. Instead of waiting, I chased after her because I felt she was trying to hide something.
We entered the room together, and there was my husband on top of another woman — on his sister’s bed. The woman also lived in that house.
When he started begging, his sister told him he was a man and shouldn’t apologise for “doing what men do.” He listened to her and held onto his pride until I finally moved out. Six months later, he came begging again, claiming his sister influenced him, but I didn’t go back.
We have one child, and she lives with me. He sends money occasionally.
Now to why I’m texting. His sister got married in 2022. I managed to get her husband to cheat with me, and we’ve been together since 2023. I make sure he loves me enough to give her problems at home.
She found out six months ago that I’m the woman he’s been seeing. She’s been trying to confront me, but it hasn’t changed anything. I keep making the man feel loved, so no matter what she does, he still comes to me.
She has reported me to my ex-husband, but I’m not stopping. They say they’ll take me to court if I don’t end things. She even called me this morning crying and begging, and I asked why she was crying when her husband was simply “being a man,” the same thing she told me years ago.
She has been sending messages, but I’m not listening.
