My wife cleans our church every weekend, usually on Saturday afternoons. She started doing this long before we got married, so I have always respected and supported it.
About two months ago, I offered to go and help her. That afternoon, I wanted us to spend some private time together, but she said she was late and could not delay her church duties. I suggested going with her so we could finish early and return home together.
At the church, she assigned tasks to everyone who came to help. I ended up working alongside another woman from the church. She asked why I had come to help since she had never seen me there before. I told her I came because I wanted to be with my wife.
She jokingly suggested I had other motives. I laughed it off, although she said she noticed how affectionate I was with my wife earlier.
We continued talking, and the conversation gradually became inappropriate. Before I fully realised what was happening, we ended up alone and had sex.
I surprised myself by how much I liked it. I took her contact, and since then, we have been meeting regularly.
I have been married for five years, and that was the first time I ever cheated on my wife. Now, even though I feel guilty, I find myself going back.
My wife does not know, and this behaviour is not who I am. I am struggling to stop, and the other woman keeps pursuing me.
Please, I need help. I want to end this affair and stop cheating on my wife, but I do not know how to break free.
