Men need to understand that, in as much as they find it extremely impossible to understand women, there are some basic things that tick every single lady around you off. No matter how many times you decide to change the women, there are certain issues that will constantly come up.
This is because though society makes the woman out to be the insatiable one, men need to know they are far from perfect too. They only need to understand the very basic things that do not go down well with women and rest assured, peace will prevail.
These things are mainly things men find absolutely nothing wrong with doing. But, dear man, these are the things that make women run mad and act crazy. There is no hard list of all the things girls hate about guys but there are some general dislikes you should be aware of.
Poor Hygiene
Top of the list is personal hygiene. Girls detest men who do not take proper care of themselves. Guys, there is nothing sexier than a man who looks good and smells absolutely divine. This activates a part of a woman’s sense in weird ways. She is immediately drawn to you and wants to know you more.
Drowning yourself in cologne to mask bad body odour never works, it only makes you smell worse than even you would want to. Take pride in your appearance by dressing in neat clothes and a neat haircut. This way, if you two cross paths with a friend or family, she is not forced to introduce you as a man she just met in order to avoid being embarrassed.
Jealousy and Insecurity
In these modern times and especially with social media threatening a lot of relationships, it is hard to trust your partner completely. However, why are you with a person you do not trust in the first place?
No woman wants to be with a clingy man who questions her every move, her every phone call or a man who is simply insecure. Jealousy is also a huge turn-off.
Ladies prefer men who display quiet confidence. A mature relationship requires trust, honesty, communication and openness. If you don’t have these, you have no business being together.
Lying
Guys, women hate being lied to. A woman bent on knowing the truth about anything is worst than an FBI agent. She will find out what she wants to find out. Try to be as truthful and transparent with your woman as possible. Do not toe the “I was trying to protect you” line.
That almost always backfires. Tell her the truth. Women in love are usually a lot more forgiving than they are given credit for. Telling lies about where you have been or whom you were with will never pay off in the end.
Being ignored
Women hate being ignored, especially by the person they love and want. This also does not suggest you stifle her with your attention-everything in the right proportion. Make sure you call her when you promise to. Try to spend as much time with her as you can afford.
Do not ignore your woman for your friends and especially in their presence. This move is disrespectful and shows how much you do not care about her. Your friends will take their manners from you and treat her with disregard if you treat her that way too.
Not Talking – particularly words of affirmation
Women love to be complimented. They live for them. Telling your woman she looks beautiful, you missed her, you were thinking about her, are words that tickle the mind of a woman in ways you have no idea of. Women are simply drawn by what they hear. Most men hide behind the character of not being expressive and ignore doing this with their women and that is how you start to lose her attention.
Again, women love to talk. About anything and everything. Unfortunately for men, talking is not a trait they identify with and most men tend to ignore their partners especially when she only wants you to listen and talk to her. After a few times of complaint, she is most likely to seek what you are refusing to give, in some other person.
Technically, it is not as difficult as speculated to understand what a woman likes or needs from you. Of course, all women are different, but very basic things apply to all women.
If your partner is always complaining and being impossible, re-evaluate yourself using these basic guidelines and watch her become a happier partner. Cheers.
